I can't believe I haven't already posted this! It's definitely not because of lack of excitement. Before our appointment the day that we found out, I felt like a kid on Christmas morning! Most of the
predictions and feelings about what we were having were obviously wrong, because we are having a baby GIRL!
Here are a few pictures of our GIRL!!
After our appointment, I sent these pictures to our moms, and later I also sent them to a few other family members and friends. When I sent the picture to my mom, she said "she looks so cute." I do have her close up pic on our refrigerator so we can look at her everyday!
At the first of our appointment, the ultrasound tech scanned everything to make sure everything looked ok. She isn't allowed to really say much though besides just telling you all the details you are looking at. Towards the end of the scan, she pointed out that we were having a little girl! Colt said he caught a glimpse a little before she said anything and thought it was a girl. When she initially told us it was a girl, I cried a little! I wasn't disappointed at all, of course, but I think I was just surprised because I had convinced myself we were probably having a boy. I kept mentioning it to Colt the rest of the day/night about how I just had everything pictured, like names, nursery, our life in general, in my head with a boy. He told me to get over it because we were having a girl :) He text a few of his close friends and immediately started talking about pink and painting the room. His best friend, Gerald, had just found out that he was having a girl as well within a few days or weeks of us, so I think he was excited. Then later that night, Colt was talking again about paint colors and designs on the wall, etc. He's definitely going to be a great daddy, and an overprotective one at that based on a few other funny comments he made!! Our poor daughter probably won't stand a chance when she gets in her teens, but I'm pretty sure Colt will be wrapped around her finger.
After the gender was revealed, the actual doctor or specialist came in to discuss the scan. He ended up telling us that she had a choroid plexus cyst in her brain. He went on to inform us that it's really common and nothing to be concerned about because it usually goes away on its own. However, since he is required to put it on the report, he had to tell us about it and also tell us what it could be associated with. Evidently it can be associated with trisomy18. He said if that was the case though, there would have been more indication or abnormalities when looking at the head, hands, heart, etc. He also said that he didn't think it was necessary but that we could go get a quad screen done to make sure there were no indicators or markers. All it was was a quick blood draw from my arm so we went ahead and went downstairs to have that done. The next day he called to let us know that everything was normal. Even though you are given all this reassurance, it's still scary to hear anything at all. Now we just have to follow up with him again for another ultrasound at 28 weeks.
When we first left the hospital, Colt called his mom to tell her what we were having. She immediately answered and was like soo.. we're having a little boy. It took us telling her over and over before she was convinced we were telling her the truth and we were indeed having a girl! Once she got it, she squealed and started giggling. After that, I called my mom to share the news!! When I talked to her, I went ahead and told her about the cyst and all that too, so I got a little emotional while on the phone. Her and my dad are both excited of course and my dad got on the phone and started asking about names! Evidently my dad is still saying to my mom that he just can't imagine me being pregnant!
A few days after we found out, that Friday, the 13th, Colt and I were doing our version of celebrating Valentine's Day by ordering pizza and watching a movie in bed! After the movie was over and we were laying there, we felt the baby really move for the first time. I had thought I had felt something a few times prior to that but I wasn't really sure. This was more obvious though and was a few times in a row. After the second or third time, I told Colt. He asked if I was smiling, and then put his hand on my belly and felt it too. He then rested his ear on my stomach and asked if it was weird having something move in my stomach and having a little alien in there! Since then, we haven't felt her like we did that night so it makes Colt wonder if it really was her moving or if we were imagining things!
Now a few weeks later, it's definitely sunk in that we will be having a girl in a few months. I will say... I can see a girl being more expensive than a boy because it's hard not to go overboard and start buying all the cute girl stuff! I did breakdown and buy one outfit off of Etsy for newborn pictures, and we went ahead and ordered our crib this week too. It's definitely exciting, and I can't wait for her to be here!